Posted on: 02 March, 2017

Author: Alexander P

Clitoral climaxes, while they are still orgasms, are the most shallow and unsatisfying of orgasms. They are better than nothing, but they can’t compare to vaginal orgasms, physically or psycholo... Clitoral climaxes, while they are still orgasms, are the most shallow and unsatisfying of orgasms. They are better than nothing, but they can’t compare to vaginal orgasms, physically or psychologically. Especially when achieved through manual stimulation, they leave much to be desired. Vaginal orgasms are much more satisfying for my wife. Something important to remember when attempting to give your wife a vaginal orgasm is that you cannot use your fingers like a penis. While digital thrusting is pleasurable for a little while, it won’t produce orgasms. The technique for giving a woman a vaginal orgasm with your fingers is the “g-spot” method. Insert two fingers into her, and bend them back towards you in a “come here” motion until she comes. These types of orgasms are harder for some women to achieve, but they are of higher quality than clitoral orgasms according to http://enlargement-world.blogspot.com/2016/10/tips-for-better-sex-and-intimacy.html Physically, fingers are rough and dry. A tongue provides better physical stimulation because it is moist, and can apply pressure in a better way. But more importantly, fingers provide very little psychological stimulation. Let’s look at each of the Four Elements: clitoral fingering isn’t very dominant. She’s being rubbed with the tip of your finger, which isn’t in the same league as getting screwed or even having your tongue inside her. Fingering of any kind also has the lowest amount of physical contact of any form of physical stimulation. Because of this, it gives fingering a more “distant” feel, lowering my wife’s levels of Emotion and Immersion. And finally, there’s really only so much Variety you can add into digital stimulation. All in all, I recommend learning how to give a woman clitoral and vaginal orgasms with your fingers if you do not yet know how to do it. Although it should not be a mainstay of your sexual repertoire, it is a valuable tool to use at certain times, on certain women. However, don’t waste too much of your time perfecting your manual stimulation - become competent at it, and move on to more effective physical techniques. WHY ORAL SEX IS BETTER THAN FINGERING A lot more guys than you would think are squeamish about oral sex. Maybe they’re had some bad experiences in the past, or have hang-ups about it, but for whatever reason they don’t like to go down on women. If you’re one of those guys, consider this: Oral sex is the most reliable way to give my wife an orgasm for a beginner. Although these orgasms cannot compare to those she gets while she is getting screwed, they are decent orgasms nonetheless. Compare oral sex to fingering in terms of DEVI, and oral is better across the board. It is more dominant - oftentimes you will have to hold her down as she thrusts her vagina into your mouth and loses control of her body to you. There’s more Emotion and Immersion, because of the more intimate level of bodily contact. Your mouth is caressing her vagina, which is something that is sure to evoke strong emotions in her. This more intimate level of contact gets her more immersed in the encounter. Variety does not increase as much as the others, but there is still more Variety you can provide with oral sex on a physical level than with fingering. If you’re still hesitant to go down on her, try to minimize whatever’s inhibiting you. If it’s something physical, like smell or taste, have your wife do everything she can to take care of it. Shaving greatly reduces the pungency of a vagina’s smell and taste. If she’s been sweating, take a shower together first. If it’s not something physical, but rather that you find yourself psychologically turned off by the idea, then you have problems with deeply ingrained beliefs that are repressing your sexuality. To achieve sexual mastery, you must achieve a mastery over all facets of sex, oral sex included. There will be exercises on how to free yourself of these limiting beliefs later. For now though, read on to learn the physical technique for oral sex. Source: Free Articles from ArticlesFactory.com Alexander P is a blogger that studies sexuality.