Posted on: 29 July, 2002

Author: Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.

Okay so most of us know how to ... alone and probably do so quite often when the need arises, but we can also ... as a couple to add a little variety to our sexual ... and t Okay so most of us know how to masturbate alone and probably do so quite often when the need arises, but we can also usemasturbation as a couple to add a little variety to our sexual smorgasbord and to spice things up a bit. Oh yeah, seeing my lover on his knees on the bed stroking his shaft with the look of exquisite pleasure on his face is one of the mosterotic images for me, and for many men, seeing their woman touch herself and bring herself to ecstasy is extremely arousing. So masturbating for each other can be a great addition to our sexual repertoire. No only is it stimulating, but it is also a magnificent wayfor us to learn how to touch our lover. We can observe where, when and how they touch themselves, taking note of intensity and speedand we can learn how to satisfy them better by adopting their methods when we masturbate them. For example: we can learn does our lover like her clitoris stimulated through the hood or does she need it exposed or we can learn doesour lover like to be stroked hard or gentle. We can take turns being the voyeur and the exhibitionist. If one partner enjoys mutual masturbation and the other feels a little shy, thenyou could try making a game out of it where the not so shy one can try to catch the shy one without their knowing and spy on themwhile they masturbate. This way the shy one can be uninhibited and the not so shy one can get their arousal. You could have theending be that you both climax alone during the act of the game or you could set it up so it ends with intercourse. As you practice masturbating for each other it will help bring down inhibitions and you can grow closer together. Masturbating for each other can be used as an alternative to intercourse if we are not in the mood or it can be a part of foreplay. It is agreat form of sex if we are in a new relationship and have not moved full steam ahead yet. It can also be used if one partner is too tiredfor intercourse, and yet wants to participate in satisfying their partner. We can also masturbate each other. Taking what we have learned by observing our partner and applying it. We can take turns with allthe attention focused on one partner at a time until they climax or it can be simultaneous. It can be very arousing to watch our partnerstimulate us manually as we stimulate them, as both partners can benefit from viewing and being viewed. We can be the voyeur and theexhibitionist at the same time. We can add toys to the scenario and try a variety of different positions and locations as well. Perhaps a camera or video camera wouldbe fun. Ahhh, the possibilities are immense. Be creative, adventurous and playful. Article Tags: Mutual Masturbation, Each Other Source: Free Articles from ArticlesFactory.com