Posted on: 02 March, 2017

Author: Alexander P

In addition to always adding Variety, you must always be combating the attraction-killing pressure of a long-term relationship by putting up “barriers” she must overcome to have sex with y... In addition to always adding Variety, you must always be combating the attraction-killing pressure of a long-term relationship by putting up “barriers” she must overcome to have sex with you. In other words, you must always work to 1. Put less focus on routine sex before you go to bed This is VERY counter-intuitive to most guys in a relationship. After all, right before bed is the most convenient, logical time for sex. There are a myriad of other routine tasks occupying both you and her throughout the day, and it’s only at night before bed that you have a few moments to spare for each other. Wouldn’t this seem like the best time for sex in a relationship? Although it would seem that way, it is actually the WORST time for sex in a long-term relationship. This is because it can become nauseatingly predictable - after having the same missionary style sex in the same bed, in the same room, at the same time for years, she will be able to see your advances coming from a mile away. And even if she has good intentions of sexually pleasing you (as most women do), she cannot help but be turned off by this unrelieved monotony. For this reason, I actually recommend NOT trying to have sex with your wife or wife on most nights just before bed. If it doesn’t happen naturally, just go to sleep. This will be very difficult at first, but soon you’ll find that her libido is greatly increased at other times throughout the day. You’ll find that she’s much more eager for sex in the mornings, in the evenings, and even in the middle of the night. Once you’ve relieved her of the burden of the tedious nightly sex routine, you’ll find that her natural sex drive will come back to life again. 2. Have sex in high-risk situations when you’re not “supposed” to Again, remember that the enemy of your sex life in a long term relationship is that sex between you and your wife or wife is now acceptable, sensible, and logical. You want to actively work to make having sex with you as illogical, high- risk, and taboo as possible. For a woman you just met this would be exactly the wrong thing to do, but in a long-term relationship it is necessary to combat pressure according to http://enlargement-world.blogspot.com/2016/11/milking-is-useless-for-pleasure.html This is why “bad boys” seem have no problem getting sex from their wives even after being in a relationship for years, while “nice guys” who keep sex low-risk and safe always seem to be sleeping on the couch. Unfortunately, most of the ways that the bad boys use to keep sex exciting are extremely destructive, such as having sex with her with no condom when she’s not on birth control, or having sex with her within earshot of one of her past lovers who would be devastated if he heard another man having sex with her. While women WILL be aroused by these destructive techniques, they are not recommended cause of the long¬term damage they cause. Instead, focus on ways to make her perceive having sex with you as high-risk and taboo which don’t actually hurt your relationship or others. Some ways that you can do this: • Have sex when you’re sleeping over a friend’s house or somewhere where you have to be quiet in order to prevent being “caught” Have sex which makes you “late for work.” Ordinarily this would be a bad idea as it would probably get you fired, but a good trick is to tell her that you have to be at work half an hour before you actually do. Once you’re “about to leave” and sex is now taboo, you’ll probably find that she’s suddenly in the mood.  Source: Free Articles from ArticlesFactory.com Alexander P is a blogger that studies sexuality.