Posted on: 02 March, 2017
Author: Alexander P
Once you start having sex, you’ll find that being in a different location (even if it’s actually just down the street) makes a big difference and adds a lot of Variety to the experience. &... Once you start having sex, you’ll find that being in a different location (even if it’s actually just down the street) makes a big difference and adds a lot of Variety to the experience. • Another way to celebrate special occasions with sex is to use her birthday to make her biggest sexual fantasy come true. If she’s previously told you about a sexual fantasy she had, such as having a threesome or having sex in public, take her out to dinner then surprise her afterwards by fulfilling that fantasy. For example, if her fantasy was of having a threesome with another woman, you could get another woman who she was interested in to be waiting at your house for you when you come home. Then, the three of you could watch a movie together, and slowly escalate into sex. If her fantasy was of having sex in public, you could take her to a hidden place you’ve previously picked out, and then have sex with her there according to http://enlargement-world.blogspot.com/ Use Sex Fantasies You can also add sexual Variety to your relationship by finding out what her sexual fantasies are, and acting out the fantasy while you’re having sex. Because of the trust you have in your relationship, it should be easy to get her to open up about her most secret fantasies that she never shares with anyone else. Then, once you know what these are, you can use them to turn her on while you’re having sex. The way to do this is to get her aroused, and then to simply start talking in the language of the fantasy. For example, if she fantasized about being a virgin again and losing her virginity to a man, you could get her turned on then start saying “your vagina is so tight...you must be a virgin.” When she is highly aroused and you begin talking like this it won’t matter that what you are saying doesn’t make sense. She’ll soon start imagining that what you’re talking about is actually happening, and sex will be much more exciting because you’re both sharing the fantasy. Check out “Act IV: The Fantasies” for a complete guide to using fantasies in the bedroom, and for nine sexual fantasies that excite almost all women. 10. Explore “taboo” activities such as threesomes & anal sex It’s important to always be pushing her sexual boundaries in a relationship. If you are always exploring new sexual frontiers with her, it is impossible for the two of you to fall into a rut or become bored. And if she’s never done a certain sex act before, all the better. When you do introduce it to her, it will add a tremendous amount of Variety to your sex life because she’s never done it before. To introduce these “taboo” activities, you want to gradually introduce them to her. You’ll probably meet with some resistance to your advances at first. This is not so much because she doesn’t want to do the activity with you, as because she’s fallen into the habit of doing things a certain way in bed and is resistant to change. If you gently persist though, and gradually incorporate more and more of the activity into your sex life, soon she’ll be able to enjoy it like anything else you normally do in bed. For example, if you’re in a relationship and you’ve never had anal sex with her before, you could start by touching her anus with your finger while you’re having sex with her. If you’ve never done this with her before, she might give you some resistance here because she’s not familiar with having her body stimulated in this way. If you gently persist though, and tell her that how good it’ll feel for her to have something inside her ass, she’ll eventually become curious and want to try it. You can then progress from inserting a lubricated finger into her, to thrusting a finger in and out of her, to finally anal sex. This process of gradual introduction and gentle persistence can be used to introduce any new sex act into your relationship, and is a great way to keep sex fresh and exciting in your relationship. Source: Free Articles from ArticlesFactory.com Alexander P is a blogger from Los Angeles who studies sexuality.