Posted on: 02 March, 2017
Author: Alexander P
The importance of psychological stimulation over physical stimulation can not be stressed enough. However, this is not to say that physical stimulation is not necessary. Think of your sexual skills as... The importance of psychological stimulation over physical stimulation can not be stressed enough. However, this is not to say that physical stimulation is not necessary. Think of your sexual skills as a tower. Think of your physical stimulation skills as the foundation of your tower. Psychological stimulation alone will not produce orgasms (except at the highest levels - and even then, it will not consistently produce orgasms). The presence of physical stimulation is necessary to translate your psychological stimulation into orgasms. The problem is, raw physical stimulation by itself can only take you so far. It is only the foundation which enables you to build psychological stimulation on top of it. In order to reach the highest levels, you must use psychological stimulation. With physical stimulation, you should aim for competency according to http://enlargement-world.blogspot.com/2016/10/advice-for-jelqing.html With psychological stimulation, you should aim for mastery. The two most important Elements of your physical technique (erection quality and stamina) directly stem from your own psychological state. These problems can rarely have medical causes, but 90% of the time they are caused by psychological problems in men. The best way to solve these problems, therefore, is not to concentrate primarily on physical technique, but on techniques to improve your psychological state. The Four Elements of psychological stimulation discussed in the DEVI model above are universal. All women need Dominance, Emotion, Variety, and Immersion to have a good sex life. Physical stimulation, on the other hand, is different. There are some techniques that work well on most women. However, women vary widely in exactly what manner of physical stimulation they prefer. If you are not sexually experienced, follow the techniques given in this book as a general guideline. They will work well on almost all women, and extremely well on some women. But, in order to give the most pleasure to your specific woman, you will have to do some experimentation. Don’t do this experimentation in the early stages of the marriage (when you’ve had sex with her less than five times). This is because before you’ve had sex this many times, she is not fully converted - that is, she may not be entirely sure that she wants to get involved with you beyond a temporary fling. At this stage, if you wish to be sexually involved with the woman in the long-term, you should concentrate on the basics of physical stimulation. Later in the marriage, start to slowly mix in experimentation to your physical technique. She will be comfortable enough to welcome it, and it will improve the Variety in your sex life. Of course, there is only so much experimentation that is possible in the physical realm. Learn the different strokes that she responds to. Once you have, you don’t have to do anything too complex beyond that. Remember: physical stimulation is just the necessary foundation - the real art of sex lies in psychological stimulation. Fingering and eating a woman’s vagina can be great. However, keep in mind they are just FOREPLAY, the lead-in to the real thing. A lot of guys unnecessarily emphasize fingering and oral sex because they are insecure about their ability to screw, and want to “make up” for it in other ways. In their mind, the fingering and licking are what gives the woman pleasure, and when he finally penetrates her, it’s his reward for giving her the orgasms before. This is totally wrong-headed. Women don’t fantasize about getting fingered - they fantasize about getting screwed. Screwing a woman is better in every way for a woman than fingering or oral. It provides better physical stimulation because a penis is the perfect size and shape to stimulate her vagina, and can reach deeper than a finger. Source: Free Articles from ArticlesFactory.com Alexander P is a blogger that studies sexuality.