Posted on: 19 December, 2013
Author: Seng Stewart
If you cannot please your woman in bed, then chances are she could be considering other options. I used to be very worried and fearful that the woman I dated would get sick of my non-performance in bed and leave me for other men. The fact is women need to be pleased as much as the man needs to during sex. It does not matter that you dont have a 9 inch penis or can last as long as the porn stars you see in videos. Pleasing a woman in bed and giving them powerful orgasms can be simple and even pleasurable for you. Read more below to find out how. Many men have a common misconception that they need to be well-equipped physically or have amazing sexual stamina and endurance before they could even have a chance of giving their woman an orgasm in bed. However, nothing can be further than the truth. Here are 10 steps I discovered through my experience with woman on giving them the pleasure and sexual satisfaction that I never dreamed that was possible. 1. Before a woman can even begin to feel orgasmic or to get into bed with you for that matter, she needs to be attracted to you. A woman needs to experience emotions before orgasm. If you are having sex with a woman who is not emotionally attached, she probably wont climax no matter what you do. That is also the reason why porn stars can last for so long without climaxing. You need to get your woman to get emotionally involved and desiring you. That can be easily achieved by communicating to her how beautiful she is and how much she means to you, with genuine sincerity. Gently caress her body and touch her in the right places. Make her feel desirable and try your best to connect emotionally. 2. She must be calm and relaxed. Some women can feel tense and nervous about sex. It is critical to put her mind and body at ease. If she remain tense and nervous, she wont be able to climax. 3. Give her a massage before having sex as it has the calming effect and can loosen her and put her in a relaxed state. This is especially useful if she is feeling tense or nervous about sex. This should also be used to relax her especially is she is feeling stressful from work. Start from the top like a regular massage and slowly work your way down to give her a more sensual massage around her inner thighs and other parts close to her vagina. This should get her relaxed and aroused for sex. 4. Teasing can get a woman very hot and aroused. Massaging around the inner thighs is one way of teasing her and warming her up for intercourse. One point to note is that teasing should always be done at the beginning and not in the middle of intercourse. Saying naughty things to her just before insertion is a good way to tease her. You definitely want to be witty about it and do it tastefully. Keep the teasing down to 30 seconds to avoid annoying her. 5. Foreplay is absolutely critical and cannot be emphasized more. Foreplay can give her more pleasure and warm her up for a orgasm in the end. It can be likened to a vehicle which performs better if warmed up. If you are lucky or good at it, you could be giving her an orgasm during foreplay. If not, you could have her warmed up and ready for intercourse and set the stage for an orgasm eventually. 6. Stimulating the clitoris is a very powerful technique to bringing her to an orgasm. A womans clit is located at the top of the vaginal opening and is a protrusion packed with nerve endings and sensitive to touch. The clit becomes filled with blood when it is stimulated and becomes more noticeable and easier to locate. The clit is twice as sensitive as the penis head. Be gentle and stimulate the surrounding area first so that it will get moist and swell up. The best way to stimulate the clit is to use your tongue, fingertips or penis. Start out slowly and gently. Then gradually work your way up to a faster and harder motion. Different women like their clits to be stimulated differently. You need to figure it out yourself. My opinion is to avoid being too rough as it is very sensitive. Using your fingers is in my opinion the best way to stimulate the clit. 7. Most men have heard of the proverbial G-spot but not many know have success with it. The G-spot is a spongy-leathery patch of skin that is hard to find. It is usually located about 2 inches inside the upper vaginal wall. Like the clit, it swells up when stimulated. The best way to locate it is to pay attention and listen to how she reacts during sex or foreplay. Her breathing will increase and it will be very obvious that she is experiencing intense pleasure when you hit the right spot. The trick to finding it is how you angle yourself and putting pressure on the upper vaginal wall. Once you hit jackpot, focus on stimulating it. The pay-off will be tremendous. 8. The sexual positions you employ during intercourse can play an important factor in helping her reach orgasm. For obvious reasons here, I would not be elaborating much on this. Suffice to say that experimenting with various positions will make sex more interesting and eventually, you will find the position that both you and her will enjoy. 9. One simple technique that you can use when having intercourse is the pelvic push. The pelvic area of a woman is located about 2 inches below her belly button. Apply pressure on this area while having intercourse. This will increase her pleasure and lead her to an orgasm faster. 10. While you can follow all these steps to giving your woman a powerful orgasm, you need to also have your ejaculation under control. The last thing you want to happen is for you to climax before she does. Source: Free Articles from ArticlesFactory.com