Should You Try To Stop Your Divorce If You're Just Thinking About Getting A Divorce

Posted on: 10 August, 2005

Author: Karl Augustine

Conversely, it could be wise to try to s top your divorce, only you know whether you should. Just because you're thinking about getting a divorce, doesn't necessarily mean that you should try to stop ... Conversely, it could be wise to try to s top your divorce, only you know whether you should. Just because you're thinking about getting a divorce, doesn't necessarily mean that you should try to stop your divorce, although its logical to automatically assume so. In order to be clear that you really want to stop your divorce if you're thinking about getting a divorce,...

Sexually Addicted? 10 Important Questions to Ask

Posted on: 01 August, 2005

Are you or your partner sexually addicted? Learn the difference between a healthy sexual drive and sexual addiction by asking yourself 10 pertinent questions. There are many things in our culture that grab us and won't let go. Sometimes sex is one of them. Perhaps that's the case for you or your spouse/partner. Sexual addiction plays a prominent role in the "I Can't Say No" kind of extramarital affair I outline in my E-book, "Break Free From the Affair." These questions are intended to help you be more aware of some behaviors that perhaps indicate that sex has a hold...

Adultery as Sexual Addiction: Should You Stay Married?

Posted on: 01 August, 2005

Discover some pointed questions one should ask him/herself when considering leaving a marriage where adultery and sexual addiction are problematic. I outline 7 kinds of affairs in my E-book, "Break Free From the Affair." One affair, "I Can't Say NO!" is characterized by addictive tendencies. Infidelity (as well as pornography, strip clubs, online chatting, compulsive masturbation, etc.) may be a part of the sexual addiction. Often the spouse or partner of a sexually addicted person intuitively knows of the addiction and the struggle his/her partner has with the behavior. The partner often "feels for" his/her partner and is in a...

The Revenge Affair: Characteristics of the Adulterer

Posted on: 01 August, 2005

It's important to distinguish between an affair of rage and an affair of revenge. This article describes the characteristics of a person who initiates a revenge affair. "I Want to Get Back at Him/Her" is one of 6 kinds of affairs I outline in my E-book. This is the "revenge affair." It occurs in a marriage in which one feels slighted in some manner and seeks revenge by engaging in an affair. It is less a movement toward the other person and more a movement away from one’s spouse. The offending spouse usually lacks the skills of personal confrontation or...

Extramarital Affairs: When Sexual Addiction and Infidelity Meet

Posted on: 01 August, 2005

Sometimes, not always, sexual addiction and infidelity go hand and hand. Learn six ways in which sexual addiction is expressed through extramarital affairs. One kind of extramarital affair revolves around sexual addiction. The partner involved in the affair, plain and simple, has a difficult time saying "NO." He/she may want to, but feels compelled to say "yes." People can’t say no? Well, I believe we all have the capacity, at some level, to say no. However, not all have developed that capacity or reached that level to firmly say no and mean it. Some are “stuck” and seem to lack...

Infidelity: Difference between a Rage and Revenge Affair

Posted on: 01 August, 2005

A revenge affair often presents an opportunity to strengthen a marriage. Such is not true when rage results in infidelity. Be informed and learn the difference. The fifth affair I outline in my book, "Break Free From The Affair" is called: "I Want to Get Back at Him/Her." This is the revenge affair. It occurs in a marriage in which one feels slighted in some manner and seeks revenge by engaging in infidelity. It is less a movement toward the other person and more a movement away from one’s spouse. Key Points: 1. The affair may be a direct response...

Emotional Infidelity: A KEY Tactic to Save the Marriage

Posted on: 01 August, 2005

Learn the one important technique to possibly save your marraige if your partner is having an emotional affair.   Hearing that your cheating spouse is “in love” with someone else is devastating. I hear often, “I can handle her having sex with someone else. I think I can live with that. But, for her to give herself emotionally and “love” someone else…man, that is hard.” (Feel free to substitute the word he for she in this article.) What can you specifically do to increase the odds of saving the marriage? So often the offended spouse reacts with intense feelings and...

Infidelity Excuse: I Fell Out of Love...and just love being in love

Posted on: 01 August, 2005

I find this dilemma rather common for younger couples, probably mid or late 30s and younger. Usually one reports, “falling out of love” and is truly disturbed by this shift. He/she (and this is not m... I find this dilemma rather common for younger couples, probably mid or late 30s and younger. Usually one reports, “falling out of love” and is truly disturbed by this shift. He/she (and this is not merely a female problem!) wants to “recapture” those feelings. This person has found a “significant other” who has stirred those dormant feelings and this person once again “feels in...

Love Relationships: Focusing on What went Right

Posted on: 29 July, 2005

Love relationships are a growing experience, and the longer we are committed to our partner, the more changes and growth will occur over time. How we adapt to those changes and growth (with our own response mechanisms) is entirely up to us. What's all the Hype about Love Relationships, Anyway?Love relationships are not what they're cracked up to be. They take real effort -- things like: admiration, commitment, dedication, devotion, forgiveness, encouragement, strength, inspiration, motivation, understanding, compassion, hope, desire, steadfastness, and so much more. What people don't realize (when they enter relationships) is love, though a beautiful thing, takes honest-to-goodness...

Relationship Advice: Top 2 Secret Ways To Become Irresistibly Magnetic To Your Wife In Less Than 72 Hours

Posted on: 21 July, 2005

Author: CR James

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