Posted on: 13 November, 2019
Author: LIAM CHESS
Maintaining a long distance relationship in most cases, is not easy. Many relationship that have existed for years ends up or breaks because of the distance between the couple.However, all is not lost as there are various ways you can maintain a long distance relationship making it to flourish despite the distance Maintaining a long distance relationship in most cases, is not easy. Many relationship that have existed for years ends up or breaks because of the distance between the couple. In most cases, the distance is normally due to getting new job out of town or country; meaning one of the partners would have to remain behind. In some instances, it is due to further education outside the country or in a town that is very far making it hard to meet frequently. You maybe talk once a while due to the busy schedule as defined by your fate. However, all is not lost as there are various ways you can maintain a long distance relationship making it to flourish despite the distance Constant communication Though you are far from one another, getting in touch frequently would continue to strengthen your relationship regardless of the distance. By frequent it does not mean maybe once or twice a week or a few times a month but, it has to be daily. He or she is the person you love a lot. Hence you have to keep a constant flow of communication and taking the initiative to know how they are doing. This could be through asking your partner questions like, how was your day. How was your night? And so on. Such questions works magic in a relationship as they would feel you are really concerned about them. Moreover, your partner would have a feeling of your presence as you would be most likely be making their day with a simple call making them never to think about moving out of the relationship. Sending gifts It is a great gesture in a relationship. Your partner would feel that you always remember him or her. When it comes to love and relationship, the smallest things matters a lot. You taking the initiative to buy your partner a bar of chocolate, flower, shoes or clothes would make them even love you more. Surprising her with gifts would strengthen your relationship and you might not feel the impact of the distance you might be experiencing in your relationship Avoid Confrontation and blame game Most marriages and relationships fails because of the misunderstanding between the couples. When it comes to pointing accusing fingers at each other without ending up with a solution for your disagreement, you should think twice about where your relationship is going. With distance, you should not expect things would be normal as they used to. You should consider the possibility of increased work load where your partner is trying to settle, hard times settling in a new area of town and so on. As such, you should be able to considerate and avoid blaming them of not doing this or that and that they have changed ever since you separated. Most likely, accuses would lead to confrontation and disagreement and which is not good for your relationship. If possible, avoid topics that would make you end up in accusing each other and if it happens so, try to cool down when the other partner temper is on the rise Making efforts of joining your partner Despite the long distance relationship. Let your partner know that you are trying everything to move close to them. Do not be too comfortable with the distance as defined by fate. If you relax with no plans about closing the distance, they would most likely feel you are seeing someone else there and that is why you are comfortable and you have no intention of joining them. They would as well start looking for alternative. And, with doubts and feeling of cheating, your relationship would be on the verge of ending since the trust would have gone. Source: Free Articles from ArticlesFactory.com Liam Chess is an experienced brand manager, content strategist and co-founder of bitsquestions, contributor and guest blogger for many websites. Being passionate about his job, he cooperates with different education courses covering a broad range of digital topics as a guest lecturer.